**Delete winner contacted** Complaint RAOK, I have something to get off my chest

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I need someone to complain to that will listen. For this RAOK all you have to do is listen to me complain and then get something off your chest . I have a 20 coupon potluck that will be drawn for on Friday the 3rd.

Today I had:
-a lady at work call me fat in front of a bunch of co-workers
-I feel the pressure to loss weight for my honeymoon to look like a model at the pool
-found out the money I was getting back on my taxes was not what I thought it was (by like A LOT)
-going on my honeymoon in less than 2 months and it is not turning out the way I thought
-my neighbor is not talking to me because the diet she is on makes her grumpy

Can I just say I wish money grew on trees because right now it feels like it would fix everything. Please let me know (and make me feel better) I'm not the only one complaining about life right now and post what is on your chest.

[Shirley89015]

Wow.....

I think the co-worker needs a slap as losing weight is hard and why point out something to purposely hurt another.


Hope tomorrow is better.
Now my complaint.... Would anyone want a ignorant man? Who thinks a woman is the only one that can get a poopy diaper cleaned.Hubby says he just can't. I think he just doesn't want too.Any takers? He is free to good home.

Shirley

[Stnggrl]

Steph,

Keep your head up and remember that this too shall pass.
Life is full of setbacks and obstacles, and it's sad when people contribute to making it harder than it can be.
But after the storm comes the sunshine and peace and quiet and you will be able to enjoy the wedding and honeymoon you dream of regardless what other may think of your weight or other trivial matter. It's sad that we live in a culture that puts too much focus and emphasis on appearances instead of what's within and being happy.
Take a bubble bath and a nice glass of wine or a cup of herbal tea and remember that you are unique and tomorrow is another better day.

All the best for your wedding!

[hapegma29]

I hope you can ignore that "lady". You can lose weight; she will always be ignorant and crude.
I know that planning a honeymoon is stressful; I personally think that a "perfect" anything is unattainable and that it's easier just to make a plan and then just enjoy the ride. Some mistakes turn out to be serendipities.
Money is not a solution, but it sure helps. There are some really unhappy rich people, though. Just know that you're in the same boat with most of the rest of us.
Everyone complains and it's good to get things off your chest. You take care and try to enjoy the journey.
My complaint: I'm tired of all the politicians and their negativity!

[Doryjane]

Im sorry! I know where your coming from. I try everyday, but I fake a smile and go on :(

My complaint- Someone that I love dear, and have for 8 years now calls me "stupid, dumb" and isnt very supportive of my feelings, just when I get my self esteem up, BAM its knocked right back down. I DO "fix" myself up, but obviously its not enough, Im not complimented as I would like to be, and it makes me real upset, have very low self esteem.

[MsSweetCheeks]

I am so sorry about what that lady said to you. I have fought my weight my whole life. I always say that I do like Kirstie Alley. I will lose a lot of weight and then gain it back and it's a vicious cycle. Losing weight and keeping it off is hard, and it isn't what is on the outside that counts. It is what's on the inside that matters. Don't let others bring you down. People that are rude to overweight people are "ignorant" and don't understand what it is like to fight a weight problem. Don't let others make you feel less than what you are worth. Nobody is perfect, and I'm sure this lady has some flaws of her own (Like her mouth).

Now for my complaint. My hubby's uncle that lives with us drives me nuts!!!! Everything always has to be his way. I just want to put a zipper on his mouth and glue it shut!!!! He is so self-righteous. He loves to cry during soap operas. Loves to gamble. Does someone want to adopt him? He is also free to a good home.

[motherofmolly]

when that person called you fat:

you should of told her : "i might be fat, but i can lose weight...ugly cant be fixed"
then i would of said "sticks and stone may break my bones but names will never hurt me"
and ended with a little dance jig of my own making and walked away with my hand up in the air (you know talk to the hand).

sorry you had a bad day.

my complaint: dang itunes why cant you just download for me!! this is the 3rd time i have tried today and you are stuck on 14 minutes and 30 seconds!!!

[Gardencook]

I got a wonderful man, but I've often said I wouldn't go through our wedding again for anything! The week leading up to it and some of what happened the day of the wedding would have made a hilarious episode of one of those ridiculous wedding sitcoms -- but no one would have believed it. I'd give you details, but it might make you panic!
That said, once we passed all the unnecessary hurdles, we had a lovely wedding and really nice honeymoon. Decades later we're still married, so something about that day worked right.
Just don't lose focus on the fact that getting married is the important part of the day, not whether anything or everything surrounding the wedding is like you planned. And don't worry about the weight. Your fiance is still willing to marry you, it must not be a problem to him.
Now for a complaint. Think there are too many of them to count! Let's just go with the package I received in the mail today. After buying three pounds of butter for a "special offer," I received a cake server which had been crushed by the post office and a dairy magazine which was more than a year old! The coupons expired December 2010! What good will those do me?

[escalada77]

I am so sorry you had such an awful day. Here is my 2cents on the matter:

- The lady that called you fat needs to have a slap in the face. OK, I know you can't do that at work, but come on, at least talk to her and say look how would you feel?
-Honeymoons are stressful, but once you are there doing it you will look back and think all that stress for nothing.
- If you soon-to-be husband did not love you the way you are he would not be marrying you, so don't worry about looking like another woman, that is NOT who he is marrying.
-As for your neighbor, let her be grumpy on her diet alone. You do not need the added stress in your life and even though you may be friends and talk daily if she is bringing you down let her know look, you are losing weight to be healthy & happy and this diet plan is not working for you.

Take a deep breath and all will work out. If all else fails with the coworker, KARMA is a *** well we know and one day when someone hurts her feelings in front of a lot of people maybe she will realized just how bad it hurt you. Keep your head up, you are beautiful no matter what they say! Words can't bring you down!

[Mama Stu]

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