
Originally Posted by
loaslaen
I'm tired of the assumptions that people have kids just to get "free money". Maybe people CHOOSE to be home with their kids and raise them instead of letting daycare and strangers raise them. Maybe some people feel that their JOB in life is to be a wife and mother, not slave to the system. Maybe some people feel sorry for the kids that don't have their parents around because their parents are always working. Maybe some didn't have their parents around when they were kids and want more for their kids. Life isn't always about how much money you make, it's what you do with what you have.
There's plenty of people who use the system in other ways and don't have their priorities straight, so I'm tired of it falling on those deemed "poor". I'm tired of all of the "don't have kids if you can't afford them", when there are plenty of people who can afford children, but neglect them and spoil them, and cause more problems than what just being "poor" can cause. People that struggle in life often have a greater appreciation for life, and for the value of a dollar. I'm tired of hearing from people that "think" they know someone because they are looking in from the outside, but don't really know what the struggles, priorities, motivation, and hearts of others really is.