violation of my privacy ugh.. i just want his drama to go far away ( long and graphic)

[angeleyeza]

thanks everypne. i thought about the straight talk phone from verizon i think if i remember walmart sold them. im not mad at anyones post all very helpful.

[LaLabrowneyes]

Sorry for what you're going through**Hugs**
Put your FB account on really private, block who ever you have to block.....

[434Teresa]

I hate to say this but unless he just gose away you will have to deal with this kind of stuff alot. Its been 11 years now for me and my x still tries this kind of crap. Always be looking over your back when it comes to him...

There has been many times that I wished he would have just moved away so me and the boys would not have to deal with him but he never did. My oldest is 17 and the other is 16 so I hope onice they are 18 I dont have to deal with him anymore.
It sounds to me like your x dont want you but he also dont want anyone else to be with you/you to be happy in way. If he is spying on you then he must be up to something and not happy with his life/has nothing better to do.

I dont know why men will act to love a child even if it ant his and then drop the child like she/he is nothing when he wants out of the marriage. I know someone that is dealing with that very thing right now. The child still young dont get why daddy dont want to take her when daddy takes her brothers with him. He wont even hug the little girl. These things make me feel so sad for the child..I know if I had been mom to a child for years I could not be so cold so easy...

Anyway good luck

[CTCMC]

He is exhibiting stalkerish behavior. I would handle it as such.

What Smee said.

[IntoTheMystic]

He is exhibiting stalkerish behavior. I would handle it as such.

I agree with changing your facebook settings, but I'd keep in mind that facebook is 1. often glitchy and unreliable, and 2. a public site by design, personal settings notwithstanding. With that in mind, I would suggest posting as if everyone in the world can read it and posting only content you'd be comfortable with the whole world reading.

I agree 100% with Smee.
- I would delete my facebook account completely. FB allows him to track where you've been, and what you are doing. Get rid of it.
- Get rid of your phone, and get a tracfone or net10 on your own.
- Change all of your passwords on every single online account. He likely knows them all, or can guess them, or reset them if he knows your secret questions, etc. Also, if your home phone is tied into your cable, he may be able to check your call history on there, too.
- And I know I might be a bit more paranoid than the average user, but be very, very careful of what you post on here. Assume he is reading it, and printing it.
- Tell him to communicate with you via text only. ONLY communicate about the children- pick ups, drop offs, etc. Handle everything else through your lawyer. Keep your texts short. Keep all your text records, and his.

GOOD LUCK!