Gosh it sucks not to be loved..........

[cearhart]

It breaks my heart that my own parents do not really have that much love for me. I mean they talk to me on the phone and are cival to me but other that that tyhey relly don't love me. Every time I have been put into a bad spot they refuse to help me. I had to sleep in my car for about 4 months because they wouldn't even co-sign for an apartment for me and my kids. They wouldn't co-sign for a car when my car got totalled it wasn't my fault either. Maybe they think I am not a good person or they really just don't like me. They have paid for my brother to fly out to their house they have done things for him that they would never do for me. I am just so sad I now need the biggest favor in my life and again my parents so no way. I don't know what to do I am so scared and sad, what did I ever do. I have money saved up for once in my life I have paid my bills on time, I am a good mom. But they still think I am a horrible person. I really need to vent about this thank to those who listened...

[Doglover8180]

Your story saddens me and makes me appreciate my parents even more.... I take them for granted sometimes, I think everyone does. But to hear stories like this, where some parents just aren't good parents, it makes me appreciate mine even more. Do you have anyone in your life that is a parental-like figure. Sometimes is the non-family members that are better to you than your own blood and sometimes it's those relationships that matter alot more. Some parents just don't know how to be good parents or they are too selfish or whatever... but it's not your fault. If anything, it probably makes you a better mother so you have your own mother to thank for that because perhaps she taught you how you don't want to be with your own children.

[lamezquita0308]

Wow, i am soo sorry that you are going through this. Sending and prayers and HUGE HUGS your way.

[SouthernBelle5]

Just know that we appreciate you here and it's not anything you've done.

[cintinative]

Not sure what is going on with you but there may be others that can help where you live. If you are at risk of losing your home, please try to find an Interfaith Hospitality Network near your home. They might be able to help with temporary housing and assistance finding permanent housing for you, coaching in a job search, etc. Don't give up.

[kittensqueak]

HUGS! I am so sorry you are feeling like that. And that you are in a rough spot right now.

We love you here at HCW.

Good luck!

[cintinative]

here's that website:
Interfaith Hospitality Network | Family Promise

Perhaps your parents think that by helping you they are enabling some sort of bad behavior/pattern. If that is true, then getting help for yourself by yourself will show them that you are making efforts to improve your life. If they are completely off how they view you, unfortunately all you can do is continue to live your best in front of them and hope that one day they will see you for who you really are.

[Mothernature]

{{{{Hugs}}}} You are struggling as it is.

Are you parents super frugal or do not loan to anyone? What are their reasons not to help?

DH's parents are the same way. It is not a money issue (they ask us for money). They are emotionally toxic. He commented the other day how peaceful our lives have been since we moved away.

[nateNnatsmommy]

ditto this!

HUGS! I am so sorry you are feeling like that. And that you are in a rough spot right now.

We love you here at HCW.

Good luck!

[Ggbwg]

Aww, i have no words of advice for you but will be thinking of you and your family. <3