Here is the answer. It's not what I hoped to hear but maybe it's fair. The key word seems to be "entitled".
Thanks for your email.
We do send out mailers from time to time, but they are not always targeted to the same customers or same demographic areas. Therefore, there is not a standard coupon mailing list. 90% of our mailers are sent to our top customers; some are targeted to customers based on what they purchase and some are sent to customers who have not used their VIC card to entice them to shop with us. Often, manufacturers will provide rewards to send to customers who purchase their products. At times, we purchases mail lists from other retailers and will send coupons to encourage them to visit our stores.
I've made sure that your address is correct in our customer database so that we can ensure that you receive any future mailers you're entitled to.
We appreciate your business and hope to continue serving your shopping needs. Please remember to use your VIC card each time to you shop.
Sincerely,
Harris Teeter Customer Relations