When would you tell? - Looks like we shouldn't have told :(

[gem7]

Prayers for you and your DH.

[STallerico]

So very sorry for your loss :( My heart & Prayers go out to you and your DH

[motherofmolly]

i am so sorry for your loss.

[tvdiva]

I am so sorry to hear you lost little November. My thoughts and prayers are with you =(

The women in my maternal line all have histories of lady business problems and/or miscarriage. We pretty much get one baby, and either miscarry all subsequent pregnancies (Mom, Grandma), die having the 2nd baby (Great Granny), or simply never get pregnant again (me). I really feel for you; the women in my family have all been there and we're right there with you -- some in spirit, of course -- holding your hand through this.

As for when I told... Going into my pregnancy with my daughter, I knew it was likely I'd have issues, and my doctor confirmed all that; apparently I'm built funny (?!) and barely made it to 34 weeks before my body decided that was all it could go (DD was born pre-term but not preemie, and healthy by some real miracle). Fortunately, I didn't truly show until I was 6 months along. Hubs and I had told only our parents before that.

Give yourself the time and space and whatever you need to heal yourself. If you ever need a shoulder to lean on or a good sturdy wall to vent at, I'm just a PM away.

--Sadie

[abond0017]

Thank you to everyone for the kind words. It means a lot.
Just wanted to let everyone know that I am doing ok. I think the initial shock and deepest part of the sadness has passed...and I am being able to get back into a sort of routine now (I know my DH is happy that some of his laundry finally got done).
Thanks again. You are all very kind.

[amylynne01]

November is a sweet name. I'm glad that you know what caused you to lose her - not that it makes it easier of course. I am still thinking of you and your DH.

[atropa]

I'm truly sorry for your loss...