Re: Air travel with 14month old.. It's likely your DS is big enough for the CARES restraint. We fly enough that we own one and LOVE it. Car seats are just inconvenient on a plane. Typically you are only allowed to place it in the window seat and it puts your child's feet just in striking distance to the seat in front of you. If you don't want to invest in one I think people rent them on ebay & such. Very easy to use and it converts the seat into a harness. We have a bag specifically designed to check the carseat and have never had a problem. In fact it's one way to get around the whole checked luggage fees because you can load it up with extra diapers, blankets, toys, etc. Most airlines still don't charge to check a carseat. We always gate check the stroller.
Next, I have never EVER had to taste anything I had in a bottle going through security. You do need to separate everything though. Grab a bin and only put the baby food/juice, diaper cream, meds, etc in that one. You can take whatever you need for her, you just have to 'declare' it. One way to simplify that is the little bitty gerber juices that are sealed. PP is correct that shoes, belts, etc have to come off, even for baby. I'm finding that more & more airports are setting up a check point for people that are going to take longer, like people with small kids or disabilities.
We let him take his own little back pack with dollar store toys/books and his portable DVD player. A spare change of clothes, a small blanket & plenty of his preferred snacks.
Don't hesitate to get up and pace the aisle if need be either.
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