How much time,effort and patience do u think it takes to train a man?

[kansascountrygirl66002]

I had a friend the other day tell me I needed a man as a joke and I told her I dont think I have enough time,effort and patience to train a man considering it took me a month to get my brother to put the seat down and clean it off on the toilet after he was done using it. My sister in law will definitely have her hands full with him and training my 3 year old nephew. So ladies tell me how long with the time,effort and patience do u think it would take to train ur men and boys? Would love to hear from u.

[OneHotMomma]

LOL, still working on it - married 5 1/2 years and dated for 1 1/2

[Macaela25]

It took me a couple years to get my DH very beautifully trained...and I learned a few things from him in the process.

[GJohnson39]

I'm in year 25, not done yet, probably won't be anytime soon.

[cheynesnana]

I'm in year 25, not done yet, probably won't be anytime soon.

Yep... I was married 33 years and still wasn't done!

[saylormama]

i know this is kind of a light hearted thing to say "train a man" but I think as soon as you stop trying to "train" them and learn to treat each other as equals, things are SO much better :) He needs to be willing to alter the way he does things for you and you need to do the same for him! :)

[clippyclippy]

Neither husband nor wife come into the marriage without a lot to learn.
Training "each other" is a lifelong process but definitely worth it!

If one thinks it's only the other that needs changin', they will be disappointed in the results...