I had a miscarriage on Monday . . .

[nurseannette]

Just want to tell you I am so sorry you going thru this. You grieve how you need to, where you need to and anytime you need to. Try not to let
insensitive people hurt your feelings.

[annielaurie_us]

and more I know it is hard and sometimes you feel like you will never fell normal then out of the blue something feels right. For me it seemed better when just one day just needed to throw something. Of course you will never forget. It has been 21 years since I had a stillborn and miss him to this day. I can not say a miscarriage is any easier it hurt just as much as the stillbirth even tho I didn't know what it was. My heart goes out to you and all my blessing. Take the time you need it will take time.

[gctattoo]

I'm so sorry. Big (((hugs))) to you. Try not to let other people's reactions get to you. Most people have no idea what to say so they come up with things that may sound callous or insensitive. It's very rare that someone is actually trying to make you feel bad. :(

And do not feel like a fool for having told people about the pregnancy so soon. You had every right to be excited and want everyone to share in your excitement. Now you just have more people who can lend a sympathetic ear when you need it. I like to think about a poster my sister had on our bedroom wall while growing up-- Trouble shared is trouble halved, joy shared is joy doubled.