I had a miscarriage on Monday . . .

[Mrs H]

You poor sweet girl. I am so very sorry this happened to you.
Take some time for yourself, keep yourself well rested, hydrated and make sure you eat.
I had a miscarriage 10yrs ago. It was heart wrenching, but like was mentioned before, time does help ease the pain.
As for some of the heartless things people say, some people are just crazy and don't think before they speak. I'd like to think their intentions are good, but they have a total lack of judgement in their communication skills.
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Many blessings to you.

[couponlover]

I'm so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. Hugs to you.

[MamaVader]

I'm so sorry for your loss and what you are going through.

[dwshrty77roc]

I'm sorry to hear about your loss, much love and support coming your way

[mother mary]

Im so sorry.

[tacatcon]

I am so sorry for your loss. As far as the telling people, if it's anyone that you both know, maybe your dh can handle that part? I know people can feel very awkward around loss and death. Just know that noone means to be insensitive they just probably don't know what to say.

I hope you will get through this tough time ok. Take care of yourself!

[amy s]

So sorry for your loss.... Remember that God will not give you anything that you cannot handle and hang in there! Get support from your family and Dr, and take toime to grieve this child before you try again. LOVE going out to you and your family!

[NIGHTB1022]

I'm sorry for your loss and I know right now your hurting and I hope in time the pain will diminish for you. As far as what to say to people, the best answer is simply "It wasn't meant to be." That usually handles the situation with grace and tactfullness.

[wildnutcase]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you and your DH. I do know what you are going through. 26 yrs ago, at age 19, I miscarried a girl at 6 months. I was later able to carry 3 boys full term. It was hard. It will get easier. I finally came to realize that God had something else in mind for me, and that maybe he needed my little girl more than I did. You will never forget, but you will be able to go on. Cry when and where you need to.....don't worry about what others think-----everyone grieves in their own way and in their own time. Love, hugs and prayers are with you. Take care.

[mamamanda]

I am so sorry for your loss. I have been in your shoes and know there is nothing anyone can say to make things better, ever.

I lost my first baby 18 years ago the day before Mother's Day. I was 18 and newly married. I was DEVASTATED! I then had my beautiful daughter almost 17 years ago. When she was 3, I lost another baby. Again, DEVASTATED! Then I had my 2 amazing boys.

As with the loss of any loved one, the pain never completely goes away. I still cry over the loss of my two babies. "Having another one" doesn't make the pain go away either. But, it sure does bring a lot of joy to one's life! Just remember, anyone who hasn't experienced miscarriage doesn't really know what to say. They're just doing they're best to try and make you feel better.