
Originally Posted by
puakinikini
Tess - you saved me from typing my response - as you said it perfectly. Julie - hang in there and just shine them on as Tess suggests. I would not let people's insensitive comments get under your skin. You have enough to worry about, just being pregnant.
Quick Story: My DHs ex-wife likes to make comments under her breath - I would ignore them - but one day I just started laughing. I actually could not help it. I got my pen out and started scribbling madly on a receipt. She said what are you doing? I said - I am writing down what you said, it is too classic. I plan on writing a book someday about the joys and burdens of being the 2nd wife and this is going in the intro. She was speechless - and the best part? She is still speechless. That stopped the remarks. Thinking fast on your feet usually stops people in their tracks. Tess gave you some good lines - I woud use them.