I would say that you need to give it a good 6 months to a year for your stockpile to build up and for that to start paying for itself.
This is not an overnight process and if money is really tight you need to "just say no" to things like the Glade candles unless they are 100% free or you feel like splurging (even at $0.16 each it's a splurge unless you would have already spent $4.80 plus tax on candles)
What a lot of folks get hung up on is that either they can:
- Buy their stockpile in the first month and be good to go
- Skip the whole stockpile process all together because who needs 20 boxes of Hamburger Helper
- Focusing on all the cheap deals without sticking to a budget and/limit...going crazy chasing each and every deal before they know that it truly is a deal, and something they can use.
You can get really excited to get 30 Glade candles for $0.16 each and 40 tubes of toothpaste for $0.50 each and 100 cans of air freshener for $0.75 each and before you know it you have tons of things that you got for free (that you thought were great deals because you were used to paying full price OR going without because you could not afford them) but now you have things you don't really need and that will last forever. And you cannot feed your family these things.
You need to focus...focus your energies on food deals, non food deals that your family uses on a daily basis (toilet paper, toothpaste...don't go crazy on this..it lasts forever, ) And only chase those non food and food items that are not necessary when they are free OR you count it as a little splurge (like you can get Ben & Jerry's ice cream for $1.00...normal price is $4 you might consider once in a while getting a pint as a treat, now you can get 4 for the price of one..so limit yourself to just getting 4...as a treat)
As for me I started at this 5 years ago with a budget of $400 a month to feed my family of two adults and 3 children (one baby that was nursing). Making that work was not always easy. When I got into couponing it was the factor that I could get more food for my money and I could afford to eat hamburger helper WITH hamburger LOL. My budget has not changed. I still budget $400 a month for groceries but now I have more mouths to feed (kids and pets) and I get more bang for my buck. I can skip coupon shopping for months if I want to and just get fresh foods and use that money for bills. Most months these days I bank a good $200 or more and put it in savings. But I like the notion that if there was a sale I just had to get in on and stockpile on (Meat, diapers ...when I had kids in diapers) I had that wiggle room. But I could probably just adjust my budget to $200 a month and say I am saving $200 but I just do it a little differently and that works for me.
Also it will depend on the sales in your area, if you have doubles and can get good deals on stuff too. But the more you stockpile...the less you have to buy at full price.