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So much stress!!

Posted 05-08-2008 at 08:28:36 AM by xlyingxwhispersx

So much has been going on latley.

Hubby and I are really on the rocks, and its hard because im only 19...so we are really trying to work things out. We have been together scince I was 13...Things have been good the past few days but last week I was really getting worried. Councling is definitally in order.

Im going to be making a HUGE move to WV in 2 weeks which im really excited about but packing and such is so time consuming!

My job has me working SO many hours the past few weeks I just feel like I cant get a break!

I havent even CVS'ed in like a month!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Im dying to shop, so thats where im off to now.

I posted in the trades forum that if I made a trade with you and you have not gotten it please PM me and I will send it. Odds are I had to many trades going on and forgot to send it. I appologize!!

So thats my update...and as for the 1000$ a year thing in my last post...there was no way I could keep up with that this year. Mabye next year!

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	just take a step back and take a deep breath. don't feel like you have to run after all the deals and work on your marriage. it will get better.
	Posted 05-10-2008 at 02:27:25 PM by JANE4girls

Ever hear that story (don't quote me on this, but this is the 'jist' of it), about the old couple that was interviewed on a 'milemark' anniversary? I think it was their 75th anniversary.
Anyhow, the reporter asked them what the 'secret' was, for staying committed so long. The wife goes and gets a small box out of the closet. She goes back, sits down and shows the reporter her little box, and opens it up. Inside, is a Large amount of $$$, like $75,000, and a few, beautiful and delicate, crocheted doilies.

The reporter can't help, but notice the enormous amount of large bills, and asks her if she knows how much she has there, and how she obtained so much money in her lifetime. I think the amount was around $75,000.

She goes on to tell him:
When she was a newlywed, and had her first fight; she went to her mother, sobbing. Her mother told her: Just go crochet a doily when this happens.
The reporter, says to her: "Surely you two have argued more than 3 times, in your marriage."
She said, "Oh, heaven's yes. When we were first married, we fought all the time. As we grew older; we didn't fight as much, and I had hundreds of doilies.
The reported nodded, and asked what happened to all the doilies then.
She replied, "We had our tough times too, financially, when we didn't have enough $$$ for milk or bread, so I would just sell how ever many doilies I needed to, to friends and family. These are the last 3 that I have made. As we grew older, we didn't argue nearly as much, and we didn't really need hundreds of doilies, so we sold them."

(((hugs))) hang in there~have faith

Posted 05-11-2008 at 11:42:09 AM by gettinrevvin2007 gettinrevvin2007 is offline

I married young, too. Looking back (not that long ago, lol) I can't believe DH and I made it. The things we went through, put up with from each other, amaze me now.
BUT...it all made us stronger. We are able to see where the bumps were in the road, and aviod them now.

Hang in there, everything will eventually fall into place. This tough period will pass, and you 2 will be on to bigger and better adventures!

Posted 05-12-2008 at 10:28:52 AM by beth119 beth119 is offline

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