so most of you know me on this board but if you dont here is a brief rundown... I am a 25 yo sahm, I babysit while dd (7) is in school, I just wanted to feel like I was contributing to the finances but at the same time I wanted to stay home with dd. I moved to utah last june with my partner but before that we lived in CA, where we both worked 50 hours a week at a 5 star casino and resort, so the fact that I am now a sahm and she is only working 40 hours and we are able to make it, is just amazing...